{"id":48,"date":"2020-04-05T23:25:50","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T20:25:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/?p=48"},"modified":"2022-03-05T18:05:10","modified_gmt":"2022-03-05T15:05:10","slug":"ucuncu-bebege-lohusalik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/2020\/04\/05\/ucuncu-bebege-lohusalik\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc Bebek ve Lohusal\u0131k&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Evet,\u00e7ocuklar\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rahat d\u00f6nemler hatta en rahat d\u00f6nemler ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131f,k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck o\u011flum be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na basm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 s\u00fcrpriz bebe\u011fi do\u011furdu\u011fumda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00fcrpriz diyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hi\u00e7 hamile kalmamam gereken bir d\u00f6nemde hamile kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir \u015fok ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m fakat bu \u015fok sevinmeme engel de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011furmaya karar vermi\u015ftim ve yoluma&nbsp; \u00fc\u00e7 can ile devam etme niyetine girmi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hamile kalma d\u00f6neminde komik bir an\u0131mda mevcut sizinle payla\u015fmak istedi\u011fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bankog tatiline gitmi\u015ftik \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim bir arkada\u015f grubumla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tap\u0131naklardan birini gezerken bir heykel vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendisi rahmi simgeliyormu\u015f, dokunan ki\u015fi hemen hamile kal\u0131yormu\u015f.D\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinden hamile kalabilmek i\u00e7in oraya gidenler de varm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu duyan arkada\u015f\u0131m asla \u00f6n\u00fcnden bile ge\u00e7mem 2 \u00e7ocuk bana yeter de artar bile dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bende hi\u00e7 inanmayarak espiri olsun diye sar\u0131larak poz verdim.G\u00fcld\u00fck ge\u00e7tik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakat tam ge\u00e7ememi\u015fim ki ordan hemen d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde hamile oldu\u011fumu \u00f6\u011frendik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gel de ruhani adetlere inanma!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birebir ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ger\u00e7ek bir olayd\u0131r bu hikaye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sonu\u00e7 art\u0131k hamileydim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Devam edecektim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O d\u00f6nem \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve tam zamanl\u0131 okula gittikleri i\u00e7in ben de \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fum yaza denk gelecekti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk kez yaz do\u011fumu yapacakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Di\u011fer iki \u00e7ocu\u011fum \u015eubat ay\u0131nda do\u011fmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu ise yaza denk gelecekti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bulundu\u011fum \u015fehir de de yaz demek \u00e7\u00f6l demekti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakat hi\u00e7 korktu\u011fum gibi omad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ok rahat bir hamilelik ge\u00e7irmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Biraz kilolu ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O neden midir nedir sadece 9 kilo ald\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ok g\u00fczelle\u015ftim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadece karn\u0131m kibar \u015fekilde b\u00fcy\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enerjim yerindeydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vee k\u0131z\u0131m olacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buraya kadar okuyan o\u011flum olacak zannedebilir ama hay\u0131r&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunu neden yazd\u0131m,daha \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131lar\u0131mda bahsetmi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her hamilelik kendine \u00f6zel.K\u0131z erkek ayr\u0131m\u0131 asl\u0131nda biraz hikaye&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi bu tarz konulara \u015fartlamay\u0131n ve hamileli\u011finizin keyfini s\u00fcr\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neyse konumuz lohusal\u0131k hamilelik de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fczel ge\u00e7en 9 ay sonunda doktorumun da uygun\u00a0 g\u00f6rmesi ile yakla\u015f\u0131k 39. haftada bebe\u011fi sezeryan ile ald\u0131m kuca\u011f\u0131ma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fuma girerken &nbsp;bu sefer korku ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m nedense&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr bir sorun olmad\u0131 fakat narkoz doktorum elimde olmayan nedenlerden de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015fti ve ger\u00e7ekten k\u00f6t\u00fc bir deneyim ya\u015fatt\u0131 bana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Epidural olmay\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015ftim bir \u00f6nceki harika deneyimden dolay\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakat o deneyim ba\u015fta Allah sonra narkoz doktorum sayesinde olmu\u015f onu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc do\u011fumda anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yirmi d\u00f6rt saatte yak\u0131n ayaklar\u0131m\u0131 hissetmedim ve oynatamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden y\u00fcr\u00fcyemedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve bu nedenle inan\u0131lmaz \u015fi\u015flik ya\u015fad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neyse ki ertesi g\u00fcne ayaklar\u0131m rahatlad\u0131 bebe\u011fe dikkatimi verebildim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do\u011fumda b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m yaz okulundayd\u0131, ortanca o\u011flum yan\u0131mdayd\u0131 ve bana \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi\u00e7 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ya\u015famad\u0131,aksine \u00e7ok sevinmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Odama gelir gelmez can\u0131m o\u011flum elimi tutup nas\u0131l oldu\u011fumu sormu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>^^Annecim,can\u0131n ac\u0131yor mu?^^<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Can\u0131m o\u011flum..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hastane odas\u0131 \u00e7ok keyifliydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu sefer fotoraf\u00e7\u0131 ayarlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oday\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00fcslemi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herkes mutlu, \u0130talyan ailesi havam\u0131z vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ev de organizasyon tamamd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmem gereken beni korkutacak hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yoktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu huzurla eve d\u00f6nd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gece yan\u0131mda e\u015fim kald\u0131 anneleri yormad\u0131m bu sefer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hatta tahmin edin bir hafta sonta hepsi evlerine d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben bebe\u011fim,o\u011flum, ve yaz okulundan d\u00f6nen k\u0131z\u0131mla harika lohusal\u0131k g\u00fcnlerim ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evde ev i\u015flerine yard\u0131m eden \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz ablam\u0131z ev ile ben de bebek ile ilgileniyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Site ortam\u0131nda oturdu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar s\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bebekle tek ben ilgilenince ev de bir s\u00fcr\u00fc de kar\u0131\u015fan ses olmay\u0131nca \u00e7ok uslu bir bebek oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evin do\u011fal sesinde uyuyan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadece ac\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda m\u00fczik gibi ses \u00e7\u0131karan, biblo k\u0131z\u0131m beni hi\u00e7 yormayan bir lohusal\u0131k ya\u015fatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4 A\u011futos da do\u011fum olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zaman akt\u0131 eyl\u00fcl oldu, \u00e7ocuklar okula ba\u015flad\u0131&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve d\u00fczen&nbsp; oturdu&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0131sacas\u0131,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tecr\u00fcbe,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fcven,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rahatl\u0131k,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sonucunda asl\u0131nda bu i\u015fin hi\u00e7 de zor olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bizzat kendim ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f oldum&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evet,\u00e7ocuklar\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc&#8230; Rahat d\u00f6nemler hatta en rahat d\u00f6nemler ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. B\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131f,k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck o\u011flum be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na basm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 s\u00fcrpriz bebe\u011fi do\u011furdu\u011fumda. S\u00fcrpriz diyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hi\u00e7 hamile kalmamam gereken bir d\u00f6nemde hamile kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bir \u015fok ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m fakat bu \u015fok sevinmeme engel de\u011fildi. Do\u011furmaya karar vermi\u015ftim ve yoluma&nbsp; \u00fc\u00e7 can ile devam etme niyetine girmi\u015ftim. Hamile kalma d\u00f6neminde<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[6],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":234,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48\/revisions\/234"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jalesayar.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}